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Privacy Matters

I like to keep my private life and affairs to myself, it was how I was raised.

Some people will openly spill the beans to anyone, even if they don’t know them; which is from my point of view, a little unnecessary if you choose to ask me.

I really value my privacy, sometimes even if you’re family or someone I share my life with, somethings must remain top secret.

I don’t share other people’s privacy unless I’m given full approval to do so. I’m not into small talk, or gossip, so I prefer to talk about relevant information about life or my reflections on life or most likely what I can do to change or better my life. 

But more often than not, it’s women that gossip, sorry ladies; but it’s true. You just cannot keep your tounges from wagging. 

As a former dancer, I’ve spent enough time with women to know this. Most of my friends are women, but when I’m in their  company we talk about climate change and not what shoes you are planning on wearing, however I digress.

Privacy matters, why does it matter? Well because we’re all unique, and we represent our tribe/family, we also must have some aspects of ourselves that we should keep to ourselves, like what we do before we go to bed, or what  we believe in, or how we see ourselves, something I do each and every day. 

I don’t like people talking about me behind my back, they have no right to do so. I don’t do it to them and they should not also. Yet people are creatures of habit, which is where such behaviours emerge from. We do need to review our habits from time to time, or we just won’t change. 

I’ve come off Facebook and LinkedIn, why because I wanted to change my daily activities as I was getting addicted, in particular to FB; but more importantly, I’m open to my privacy being abused.

So, privacy matters to me, and I’m sure for some of you too. We can all be open, I’m always open, but my private life is just that, my private life.



Be Open to CHANGE

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Many of us are resistant to change, we become accustomed to routine, the expected, the done thing. It is not surprising that those few who break free from the norm, often live a life that many of us can only dream of, and sometimes envy.

I am naturally a fearless bold guy, it has led me to be able to look back with fondness on the life I have lived thus far. I thrive on new experiences, new places, new people.

When you are open to change, change herself will always find you… people come into (and leave) your life to enable the change that will take you to the next level (if only we can decipher the hidden clues around us and make best use of their message).

Very often breaking through the cryptic message requires nothing other than listening to your silent voice, the voice, your voice, that speaks to your mind instructing you with the core ancient wisdom that you have inherited on what to do next.

I am listening to mine now… it is the voice that has instructed me to write this blog for you. It is also my openness to change that has brought fresh (extraordinary) people into my life; for a reason, to learn from or to teach, and it is my silent voice’s message that I will act on to take me to the next level – with them, because of them, or in spite of them.

I feel incredibly excited about the next minute in my life, a deep sense of something truly special is about to engulf me, spin me around, force me to look to the sky, making me laugh with joy until my belly aches… an experience I have not had for a long time.

Things are falling neatly into place… I feel the energy from my activities, and there are different vibrations emanating from everything that I do. I am learning each day how to interpret what these vibrations mean, and just how important they are.

Dear reader I feel a deep sense of love, agape love; magical emotions that create magical outcomes.

That’s all I have to say today.

Live n Love~