We’re bombarded with negative news, and as a result, we tend to focus on problems and not solutions.
Moreover, we can become suspicious of our fellow citizens, and as result we view them as threatening, instead of genuine people just like you and me, wanting exactly or almost the same things in life.
It is what it is dear reader, but the all important power of choice that we all possess, can change the status quo.
So what is the next step?
View problems as opportunities, and not just problems. Think of it this way, you had to tumble down all over the place, before you could eventually walk. So the tumbling was a problem, but none of us can remember it as a problem, it was an opportunity to get on your two feet and in a little while, fall down again, and we repeated the exercise until we can walk and run and cycle and swim and climb…
For some of us, a problem can be very frustrating depending on the level of the challenge, and sometimes can bring the worse from some people, in terms of temperamental and irrational behaviour.
Think about being stuck in traffic jam for hours, many of us will just wait, while others will sound their horn, even though it proves to be a futile action, and some will leave their car and go absolutely berserk!
Self-discipline ladies and gentlemen.
Whether you’re drowning in debt, having relationship issues, problems at work, struggling with an exam or whatever it is, view it as an opportunity, to drive personal Change, but do think carefully about what you’re going to do, and plan the solution, particularly if it’s a big problem and therefore the opportunity will be significant, so do plan.
Happy Friday people, live n love always!