EASY EMPOWERMENT

It can take several lifetimes or more, to fully get to know someone…  

It does not matter whether you’re a Siamese twin, husband and wife on the verge of a Diamond Wedding Anniversary, tutor and pupil, parent and child – we are who we are at that time, in that moment.

You are not you one more second into the future, nor you, yesterday; you are who you are NOW!

Now holding this thought could make some of us feel a little uncomfortable, particularly if the person you are certain you know only too well, may be, just may be someone completely unknown to you.

If you could shadow that person for just one day without they knowing you were doing so, do you think you may be surprised by what you could witness? Shocked even?

Is it conceivable that we have a private face and a public one? Or several faces? Now I am not likening this to an actor or celebrity who under the spotlights plays out their alter ego, but behind closed doors is a very different person completely, no I am attempting to highlight those activities and behaviours that you know only too well; you would not, and could not reveal to someone else, anyone else, even those closest to you.

WE ALL HAVE THEM!

As social beings, we instinctively morph our personality to communicate effectively with others at a physical and energy/spiritual level.

This could even mean from time to time, throwing on the veil of a façade, smiling from the lips but not from the eyes, altering or masking our accents, lowering or raising our tone of voice, changing our preferred mode of dress to make that important impression, to be included, liked and admired.

It is one of a few reasons, that so many of us attempt to layer who we are on to that other person – we try to change them, make them fit into our view of the ideal so that our understanding of them is more readily accepted, understood, and any potential shocks diluted to a ‘I can deal with this’ level, allowing you to continue life with a certain amount of peace of mind; factored-in expectations, and cordial bliss.

How often when someone dear passes away, that something or other about their life comes to light that even you, yes you were not aware of?

So here’s my point…

We can only work with what we know, when we know and how this information is made clear to us – we are all constantly CHANGING, knowingly and naturally – the person you were last year, will not be you next year.

Circumstances change, opportunities arrive and slip away, people enter and will leave your life path, events occur that can throw can you out of kilter, alter your mindset, even set your growth temporarily into reverse.

It is only the ACCEPTANCE of change, that will enable self-growth without your ‘chosen’ external conditions attached.

So you, and I would, and should be more willing to come out of our human closet, and make the truest and most honest declaration that could be made, by announcing now – I AM NOT WHO YOU THINK I AM!

For some of us, we don’t always see positivity for what it is.

It is not that unusual to find that those who live their lives in a positive way, express positive mantras and are regarded as positive role models, will often attract hostility, jealousy, suspicion and other negative responses.

This is perverse isn’t it?

I am able to highlight just two of history’s most powerful names from many that could be presented as an example of this; Jesus Christ and Martin Luther King Jr.

So what exactly is it that creates ill feeling towards these good people? Why are they looked upon in an underhand way as a ‘do-gooder’, liberal and worse?

Some may argue (and there is some truth in this) that it is because positive people arouse discomfort in some, by making mentally public the privacy of their deficiencies, and or a hidden deep-set wish to be just like them… a kind of reverse compliment if you like.

Indeed, those who are seemingly blazing-a-trail, may meet open hostility from peers instead of support. Those who are blessed by nature with good looks, will often be the subject of covert ridicule and slit eyed, teeth gritting admiration, and those with the innate gift for inspirational ideas and turning them into monetary fortune, will for sure have more enemies than friends.

There is a thought that I hold dear, it is this… If you want to REPLICATE, it is wise to EMULATE.

In short, if you want to have success and all things good in life, it is a wholly good decision not to distance, cut off, dismiss and undermine those achieving success; but instead try to discover the secrets of these very special and remarkable people.

Positive people will often willingly share their knowledge, success principles and positivity in a blink of an eye – they believe unerringly, that by giving and sharing, success will eventually amplify and rebound.

It is easy to succumb to the daily bombardment of negativity; it is EVERYWHERE – so it is really a good idea, and relatively easy to lock on to what is poor information, are negative role models, corrupt ideals, and quite frankly, those who are down right negative, and do your utmost to erase them from your life.

Just like what you consume in the way of food and drink will have a gradual or instant affect on your physiological well-being, so it is, of the negativity that is all about us – absorb it, and IT WILL ABSORB YOU.

To Manifest Long-Term Contentment, One Must..

Enshrine All Actions With A Positive Attitude.

Acknowledge The Past, but Embrace The Present.

Practise Consistency Of Purpose.

See The Bigger Picture Without Compromising The Detail.

Know That With Faith And Application Comes Hope.

Never Underestimate The Strength Of Your Family.

Be Unguarded To The Richness Of Change And Diversity.

To Treat Everyone And Everything With Value And Without Expectation.

Not Turn One’s Back On Those Who Remain Constant In Your Life.

Accept That Only LOVE Can Truly Remedy All Evil.